Getting Your Boyfriend Back After You Broke Up With Him

By Alexandra Peterson

Did you make a mistake by breaking up with your boyfriend and now you want to get back together? You would do anything to go back in time and do it all over again but that's not going to happen any time soon. You realize what a fool you were and you wish you had done things differently. Now, all you want to do is get him back but nothing seems to be working.

Maybe it is a stupid arguement that led to your breakup. Maybe you felt neglected and wanted more of his attention that led to your breakup. Maybe things just got out of hand and before you knew it you said the words that you wish you never said. You said that you were breaking up with him and now you want to know how to get him back.

No doubt you've already tried talking to him and explaining that you made a terrible mistake. You've probably told him how much you love him and how you'll never say those things to him that you said before he left. But, no matter what you say or do it seems like he is unmoved. Tears will not move him to show you mercy and your words of love are falling on deaf ears. Your days are dark and depressing and you know that if you could just get him back that you could be happy again.

I know that right now you might not believe it but getting your boyfriend back really isn't all that hard. Just like everything in life, there has to be a way to accomplish your goal no matter what it is. When it comes to getting your boyfriend back, there has to be a way to make him feel the love and desire that he once felt for you. Knowing what to say and what to do to push him beyond what he can handle emotionally while not doing the things that are going to turn him off is simple yet sometimes difficult for women to pull off. In a nutshell though, this is what is going to get you your boyfriend back.

For instance, begging and pleading for him to forgive you might feel like the right thing to do but these tactics will actually make you appear weak and needy to him. Writing him a long letter explaining how sorry you are might seem like a possible way to change his mind. You might think that he will see your sincerety and forgive you for your mistake but, again, these methods are only going to push him further away.

Doing the opposite isn't going to get you far either. Yelling at him or trying to knock him down a peg or two by pointing out all of his character flaws and all the things that he did wrong in the relationship that you tollerated isn't going to bring him back. It might feel good for about five minutes or so but giving him the tough love that you think he needs will only give him a reason to never talk to you again and never answer the phone when you call him. There might come a time when you do get this frustrated and you'll want to lash out at him. Avoid the temptation and keep your emotions in check for the moment.

Knowing what makes your ex tick and using that information against him is the most effective way to get him back. Understanding a little bit about male psychology and knowing how to leverage this information can bring you success more quickly and more easily than you might think. These methods do go against what you think and feel is right. This is because women simply think differently than men and what makes sense to you will not work when you are trying to resurrect a failed relationship with a guy. Get back to being the woman that he fell in love with and remember that guys need something to chase so let him chase you if you want to get him back.

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